May the world be kind to you, and may your own thoughts be gentle upon yourself. - Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Thursday, September 3, 2026
Patience and Gentleness
A person who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
- George Savile [paraphrase]
A tree that is unbending, is easily broken.
- Lao Tzu
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Resistance creates suffering. Stress happens when your mind resists what is...
The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
The greatest weapon against stress
is our ability to choose one thought over another.
- William James
Do not attempt to conquer the world with force,
for force only causes resistance.
- Lao Tzu
Read the Aesop fable The Oak and the Reeds
Further reading: The Secret of Happiness
The River of Life
Enjoy the Journey
Friday, August 21, 2026
Be Patient and Gentle
Nothing is softer or more flexible than water,
yet nothing can resist it.
- Lao Tzu
Choose your battles wisely.
While your core principles and your life goals are important,
most of what you let upset you is not worth an argument or lost sleep.
Take Lao Tzu's advice and become softer and more flexible.
Patience, persistence, and perseverance.
A little more each day, a little better each day.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Patience can't be acquired overnight.
It is just like building up a muscle.
Every day you need to work on it.
- Eknath Easwaran
The key to everything is patience.
You get the chicken by hatching the egg,
not by smashing it open.
- Arnold H. Glasgow
Gentleness Surpasses Rigidity.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Tread Lightly
Be Gentle with Yourself
Aesop: Gentleness and kind persuasion win where force and bluster fail
The Oak and the Reeds - a fable by Aesop
Saturday, January 31, 2026
Choose Inner Peace
The world has always been in an uproar, and it always will be.
Choose Peace. Choose to live with Peace.
Choose to interact peacefully with everyone -
especially those whose instinct is not to be peaceful.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
You are precisely as big as what you love and precisely
as small as what you allow to annoy you.
- Robert Anton Wilson
You may not seem able to change some outer circumstances
but you can start by changing your inner experience of life and yourself.
- Joy Page
Choose Inner Peace.
Nothing is worth losing your inner peace.
Take action as circumstances require,
but never surrender your inner peace.
Stop. Breathe deeply.
Close your eyes and breathe deeply again.
Then, and only then, take action -
from a peaceful heart.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
We can never obtain peace in the outer world
until we make peace with ourselves.
- Dalai Lama
Never be in a hurry; do everything quietly and in a calm spirit.
Do not lose your inner peace for anything whatsoever,
even if your whole world seems upset.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Further reading: Have Gratitude for THIS Moment
Slow Down and Focus
Focus on Peace
Kick Back
Tuesday, January 20, 2026
Your Anger Costs You YOUR Joy
Anger is a killing thing:
it kills the man who angers,
for each rage leaves him less than he had been before -
it takes something from him.
- Louis L'Amour
Being angry is as close as a human being
can come to experiencing hell on earth.
Pause. Breathe deeply. Step back and look at the issue from a new perspective.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Anger is like a thorn in the heart.
- Yiddish Proverb
When you are offended at any man's fault,
turn to yourself and study your own failings.
Then you will forget your anger.
- Epictetus
There was never an angry man that thought his anger unjust.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Further reading: Stop Anger Before It Stops You
De-Stress Your Life
Anger is a Killing Thing
Never Speak while Angry
Overcoming Anger
Wednesday, September 3, 2025
Learn to Master Patience
A person who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
- George Savile [paraphrase]
A tree that is unbending, is easily broken.
- Lao Tzu
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Resistance creates suffering.
Stress happens when your mind resists what is...
The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
The greatest weapon against stress
is our ability to choose one thought over another.
- William James
Do not attempt to conquer the world with force,
for force only causes resistance.
- Lao Tzu
Read the Aesop fable The Oak and the Reeds
Further reading: The Secret of Happiness
The River of Life
Enjoy the Journey
Thursday, August 21, 2025
Work at Being Patient and Gentle
Nothing is softer or more flexible than water,
yet nothing can resist it.
- Lao Tzu
Choose your battles wisely.
While your core principles and your life goals are important,
most of what you let upset you is not worth an argument or lost sleep.
Take Lao Tzu's advice and become softer and more flexible.
Patience, persistence, and perseverance.
A little more each day, a little better each day.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Patience can't be acquired overnight.
It is just like building up a muscle.
Every day you need to work on it.
- Eknath Easwaran
The key to everything is patience.
You get the chicken by hatching the egg,
not by smashing it open.
- Arnold H. Glasgow
Gentleness Surpasses Rigidity.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Tread Lightly
Be Gentle with Yourself
Aesop: Gentleness and kind persuasion win where force and bluster fail
The Oak and the Reeds - a fable by Aesop
Friday, January 31, 2025
Seek Inner Peace
The world has always been in an uproar, and it always will be.
Choose Peace. Choose to live with Peace.
Choose to interact peacefully with everyone -
especially those whose instinct is not to be peaceful.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
You are precisely as big as what you love and precisely
as small as what you allow to annoy you.
- Robert Anton Wilson
You may not seem able to change some outer circumstances
but you can start by changing your inner experience of life and yourself.
- Joy Page
Choose Inner Peace.
Nothing is worth losing your inner peace.
Take action as circumstances require,
but never surrender your inner peace.
Stop. Breathe deeply.
Close your eyes and breathe deeply again.
Then, and only then, take action -
from a peaceful heart.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
We can never obtain peace in the outer world
until we make peace with ourselves.
- Dalai Lama
Never be in a hurry; do everything quietly and in a calm spirit.
Do not lose your inner peace for anything whatsoever,
even if your whole world seems upset.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Further reading: Have Gratitude for THIS Moment
Slow Down and Focus
Focus on Peace
Kick Back
Monday, January 20, 2025
Your Anger Takes Someting from YOU
Anger is a killing thing:
it kills the man who angers,
for each rage leaves him less than he had been before -
it takes something from him.
- Louis L'Amour
Being angry is as close as a human being
can come to experiencing hell on earth.
Pause. Breathe deeply. Step back and look at the issue from a new perspective.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Anger is like a thorn in the heart.
- Yiddish Proverb
When you are offended at any man's fault,
turn to yourself and study your own failings.
Then you will forget your anger.
- Epictetus
There was never an angry man that thought his anger unjust.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Further reading: Stop Anger Before It Stops You
De-Stress Your Life
Anger is a Killing Thing
Never Speak while Angry
Overcoming Anger
Tuesday, September 3, 2024
Be a Master of Patience
A person who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
- George Savile [paraphrase]
A tree that is unbending, is easily broken.
- Lao Tzu
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Resistance creates suffering. Stress happens when your mind resists what is...
The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
Do not attempt to conquer the world with force,
for force only causes resistance.
- Lao Tzu
Read the Aesop fable The Oak and the Reeds
Further reading: The Secret of Happiness
The River of Life
Enjoy the Journey
Friday, August 23, 2024
Patience is a Form of Wisdom
Patience is a form of wisdom.
It demonstrates that we understand and accept
the fact that sometimes things must unfold in their own time.
- Jon Kabat-Zinn
Patience, persistence, and perseverance.
A little more each day, a little better each day.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
The mountain remains unmoved at seeming defeat by the mist.
- Rabindranath Tagore
Patience and fortitude conquer all things.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
If you would know strength and patience,
welcome the company of trees.
- Hal Borland
Further reading: The Wisdom of Patience
Try Again Tomorrow
Strength in Silence
Beyond Worry
Emulate the Patience of Nature
Fortitude
Wednesday, August 21, 2024
Subtlety and Patience
Nothing is softer or more flexible than water,
yet nothing can resist it.
- Lao Tzu
Choose your battles wisely.
While your core principles and your life goals are important,
most of what you let upset you is not worth an argument or lost sleep.
Take Lao Tzu's advice and become softer and more flexible.
Patience, persistence, and perseverance.
A little more each day, a little better each day.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Patience can't be acquired overnight.
It is just like building up a muscle.
Every day you need to work on it.
- Eknath Easwaran
The key to everything is patience.
You get the chicken by hatching the egg,
not by smashing it open.
- Arnold H. Glasgow
Gentleness Surpasses Rigidity.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Tread Lightly
Be Gentle with Yourself
Aesop: Gentleness and kind persuasion win where force and bluster fail
The Oak and the Reeds - a fable by Aesop
Wednesday, January 31, 2024
Value Inner Peace
The world has always been in an uproar, and it always will be.
Choose Peace. Choose to live with Peace.
Choose to interact peacefully with everyone -
especially those whose instinct is not to be peaceful.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
You are precisely as big as what you love and precisely
as small as what you allow to annoy you.
- Robert Anton Wilson
You may not seem able to change some outer circumstances
but you can start by changing your inner experience of life and yourself.
- Joy Page
Choose Inner Peace.
Nothing is worth losing your inner peace.
Take action as circumstances require,
but never surrender your inner peace.
Stop. Breathe deeply.
Close your eyes and breathe deeply again.
Then, and only then, take action -
from a peaceful heart.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
We can never obtain peace in the outer world
until we make peace with ourselves.
- Dalai Lama
Never be in a hurry; do everything quietly and in a calm spirit.
Do not lose your inner peace for anything whatsoever,
even if your whole world seems upset.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Further reading: Have Gratitude for THIS Moment
Slow Down and Focus
Focus on Peace
Kick Back
Saturday, January 20, 2024
Anger is like a thorn in the heart
Being angry is as close as a human being
can come to experiencing hell on earth.
Pause. Breathe deeply. Step back and look at the issue from a new perspective.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Anger is like a thorn in the heart.
- Yiddish Proverb
When you are offended at any man's fault,
turn to yourself and study your own failings.
Then you will forget your anger.
- Epictetus
There was never an angry man that thought his anger unjust.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Further reading: Stop Anger Before It Stops You
De-Stress Your Life
Anger is a Killing Thing
Never Speak while Angry
Overcoming Anger
Sunday, September 3, 2023
Flexibility
A person who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
- George Savile [paraphrase]
A tree that is unbending, is easily broken.
- Lao Tzu
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Resistance creates suffering. Stress happens when your mind resists what is...
The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
Do not attempt to conquer the world with force,
for force only causes resistance.
- Lao Tzu
Read the Aesop fable The Oak and the Reeds
Further reading: The Secret of Happiness
The River of Life
Enjoy the Journey
Wednesday, August 23, 2023
Patience and Fortitude Conquer All Things
Patience is a form of wisdom.
It demonstrates that we understand and accept
the fact that sometimes things must unfold in their own time.
- Jon Kabat-Zinn
Patience, persistence, and perseverance.
A little more each day, a little better each day.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
The mountain remains unmoved at seeming defeat by the mist.
- Rabindranath Tagore
Patience and fortitude conquer all things.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
If you would know strength and patience,
welcome the company of trees.
- Hal Borland
Further reading: The Wisdom of Patience
Try Again Tomorrow
Strength in Silence
Beyond Worry
Emulate the Patience of Nature
Fortitude
Monday, August 21, 2023
Be Ready to Adapt to Change
Nothing is softer or more flexible than water,
yet nothing can resist it.
- Lao Tzu
Choose your battles wisely.
While your core principles and your life goals are important,
most of what you let upset you is not worth an argument or lost sleep.
Take Lao Tzu's advice and become softer and more flexible.
Patience, persistence, and perseverance.
A little more each day, a little better each day.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Patience can't be acquired overnight.
It is just like building up a muscle.
Every day you need to work on it.
- Eknath Easwaran
The key to everything is patience.
You get the chicken by hatching the egg,
not by smashing it open.
- Arnold H. Glasgow
Gentleness Surpasses Rigidity.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Tread Lightly
Be Gentle with Yourself
Aesop: Gentleness and kind persuasion win where force and bluster fail
The Oak and the Reeds - a fable by Aesop
Saturday, January 28, 2023
You Can Choose Inner Peace
The world has always been in an uproar, and it always will be.
Choose Peace. Choose to live with Peace.
Choose to interact peacefully with everyone -
especially those whose instinct is not to be peaceful.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
You are precisely as big as what you love and precisely
as small as what you allow to annoy you.
- Robert Anton Wilson
You may not seem able to change some outer circumstances
but you can start by changing your inner experience of life and yourself.
- Joy Page
Choose Inner Peace.
Nothing is worth losing your inner peace.
Take action as circumstances require,
but never surrender your inner peace.
Stop. Breathe deeply.
Close your eyes and breathe deeply again.
Then, and only then, take action -
from a peaceful heart.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
We can never obtain peace in the outer world
until we make peace with ourselves.
- Dalai Lama
Never be in a hurry; do everything quietly and in a calm spirit.
Do not lose your inner peace for anything whatsoever,
even if your whole world seems upset.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Further reading: Have Gratitude for THIS Moment
Slow Down and Focus
Focus on Peace
Kick Back
Tuesday, January 17, 2023
You are the One Who Suffers from Your Anger
Being angry is as close as a human being
can come to experiencing hell on earth.
Pause. Breathe deeply. Step back and look at the issue from a new perspective.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Anger is like a thorn in the heart.
- Yiddish Proverb
When you are offended at any man's fault,
turn to yourself and study your own failings.
Then you will forget your anger.
- Epictetus
There was never an angry man that thought his anger unjust.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Further reading: Stop Anger Before It Stops You
De-Stress Your Life
Anger is a Killing Thing
Never Speak while Angry
Overcoming Anger
Saturday, August 20, 2022
Remain Flexible
A man who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
- Lao Tzu
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
Do not attempt to conquer the world with force,
for force only causes resistance.
- Lao Tzu
Read the Aesop fable The Oak and the Reeds
Further reading: The Secret of Happiness
Tuesday, August 9, 2022
Be Patient
Patience is a form of wisdom.
It demonstrates that we understand and accept
the fact that sometimes things must unfold in their own time.
- Jon Kabat-Zinn
Patience, persistence, and perseverance.
A little more each day, a little better each day.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
The mountain remains unmoved at seeming defeat by the mist.
- Rabindranath Tagore
Patience is a form of wisdom.
It demonstrates that we understand and accept
the fact that sometimes things must unfold in their own time.
- Jon Kabat-Zinn
Patience and fortitude conquer all things.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
If you would know strength and patience,
welcome the company of trees.
- Hal Borland
Further reading: The Wisdom of Patience
Try Again Tomorrow
Strength in Silence
Beyond Worry
Emulate the Patience of Nature
Fortitude




