May the world be kind to you, and may your own thoughts be gentle upon yourself. - Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Thursday, September 3, 2026
Patience and Gentleness
A person who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
- George Savile [paraphrase]
A tree that is unbending, is easily broken.
- Lao Tzu
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Resistance creates suffering. Stress happens when your mind resists what is...
The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
The greatest weapon against stress
is our ability to choose one thought over another.
- William James
Do not attempt to conquer the world with force,
for force only causes resistance.
- Lao Tzu
Read the Aesop fable The Oak and the Reeds
Further reading: The Secret of Happiness
The River of Life
Enjoy the Journey
Sunday, May 10, 2026
Complaint Against Life Fixes Nothing
Some things you can change, others you need to work with.
But the worst choice is to pretend that things aren't the way they really are.
Begin with the facts, then make your choices.
Do not rail against life. [Do not complain about life.]
Make positive contributions where you can.
Practice gracious acceptance elsewhere.
And express daily gratitude for all of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
If you want reality to be different than it is,
you might as well try to teach a cat to bark.
- Byron Katie
He who avoids complaint invites happiness.
- Abu Bakr
How is it that one rails against that
which is nearly a certainty?
- Mary Anne Radmacher
To deny the facts would be illogical.
- the character Spock in the television series Star Trek
Further reading: Do What You Can; Trust God With The Rest
Don't Resist Life
I Will Fear No Evil
Serenity rather than Fear
Sunday, December 21, 2025
Without Change There Can Be No Progress
The world hates change, yet it is the only thing that has brought progress.
- Charles Kettering (1876-1958 - holder of 186 US Patents, including the automotive electric starter)
A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.
- Mark Twain
New ideas pass through three periods:
1) It can't be done.
2) It probably can be done, but it's not worth doing.
3) I knew it was a good idea all along!
- Arthur C. Clarke
If you want to make enemies, try to change something.
-Woodrow Wilson
Ideas, yes.
Inspiration, yes.
Creativity, yes.
Planning, yes.
Perseverance, yes.
More perseverance, yes.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Progress
A Better Plan
Flexibility
Cheer for Endings
Wednesday, September 3, 2025
Learn to Master Patience
A person who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
- George Savile [paraphrase]
A tree that is unbending, is easily broken.
- Lao Tzu
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Resistance creates suffering.
Stress happens when your mind resists what is...
The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
The greatest weapon against stress
is our ability to choose one thought over another.
- William James
Do not attempt to conquer the world with force,
for force only causes resistance.
- Lao Tzu
Read the Aesop fable The Oak and the Reeds
Further reading: The Secret of Happiness
The River of Life
Enjoy the Journey
Saturday, May 10, 2025
Don't Complain
Some things you can change, others you need to work with.
But the worst choice is to pretend that things aren't the way they really are.
Begin with the facts, then make your choices.
Do not rail against life. [Do not complain about life.]
Make positive contributions where you can.
Practice gracious acceptance elsewhere.
And express daily gratitude for all of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
If you want reality to be different than it is,
you might as well try to teach a cat to bark.
- Byron Katie
He who avoids complaint invites happiness.
- Abu Bakr
How is it that one rails against that
which is nearly a certainty?
- Mary Anne Radmacher
To deny the facts would be illogical.
- the character Spock in the television series Star Trek
Further reading: Do What You Can; Trust God With The Rest
Don't Resist Life
I Will Fear No Evil
Serenity rather than Fear
Saturday, December 21, 2024
You Can't Have Progress Without Change
The world hates change, yet it is the only thing that has brought progress.
- Charles Kettering (1876-1958 - holder of 186 US Patents, including the automotive electric starter)
A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.
- Mark Twain
New ideas pass through three periods:
1) It can't be done.
2) It probably can be done, but it's not worth doing.
3) I knew it was a good idea all along!
- Arthur C. Clarke
If you want to make enemies, try to change something.
-Woodrow Wilson
Ideas, yes.
Inspiration, yes.
Creativity, yes.
Planning, yes.
Perseverance, yes.
More perseverance, yes.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Progress
A Better Plan
Flexibility
Cheer for Endings
Tuesday, September 3, 2024
Be a Master of Patience
A person who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
- George Savile [paraphrase]
A tree that is unbending, is easily broken.
- Lao Tzu
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Resistance creates suffering. Stress happens when your mind resists what is...
The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
Do not attempt to conquer the world with force,
for force only causes resistance.
- Lao Tzu
Read the Aesop fable The Oak and the Reeds
Further reading: The Secret of Happiness
The River of Life
Enjoy the Journey
Friday, May 10, 2024
To deny the facts would be illogical
Some things you can change, others you need to work with.
But the worst choice is to pretend that things aren't the way they really are.
Begin with the facts, then make your choices.
Do not rail against life. [Do not complain about life.]
Make positive contributions where you can.
Practice gracious acceptance elsewhere.
And express daily gratitude for all of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
If you want reality to be different than it is,
you might as well try to teach a cat to bark.
- Byron Katie
He who avoids complaint invites happiness.
- Abu Bakr
How is it that one rails against that
which is nearly a certainty?
- Mary Anne Radmacher
To deny the facts would be illogical.
- the character Spock in the television series Star Trek
Further reading: Do What You Can; Trust God With The Rest
Don't Resist Life
I Will Fear No Evil
Serenity rather than Fear
Thursday, December 21, 2023
Progress Requires Change
The world hates change, yet it is the only thing that has brought progress.
- Charles Kettering (1876-1958 - holder of 186 US Patents, including the automotive electric starter)
A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.
- Mark Twain
New ideas pass through three periods:
1) It can't be done.
2) It probably can be done, but it's not worth doing.
3) I knew it was a good idea all along!
- Arthur C. Clarke
If you want to make enemies, try to change something.
-Woodrow Wilson
Ideas, yes.
Inspiration, yes.
Creativity, yes.
Planning, yes.
Perseverance, yes.
More perseverance, yes.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Progress
A Better Plan
Flexibility
Cheer for Endings
Sunday, September 3, 2023
Flexibility
A person who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
- George Savile [paraphrase]
A tree that is unbending, is easily broken.
- Lao Tzu
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions,
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
Resistance creates suffering. Stress happens when your mind resists what is...
The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
Do not attempt to conquer the world with force,
for force only causes resistance.
- Lao Tzu
Read the Aesop fable The Oak and the Reeds
Further reading: The Secret of Happiness
The River of Life
Enjoy the Journey
Tuesday, May 9, 2023
Don't Fight Reality
Some things you can change, others you need to work with.
But the worst choice is to pretend that things aren't the way they really are.
Begin with the facts, then make your choices.
Do not rail against life. [Do not complain about life.]
Make positive contributions where you can.
Practice gracious acceptance elsewhere.
And express daily gratitude for all of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
If you want reality to be different than it is,
you might as well try to teach a cat to bark.
- Byron Katie
He who avoids complaint invites happiness.
- Abu Bakr
How is it that one rails against that
which is nearly a certainty?
- Mary Anne Radmacher
To deny the facts would be illogical.
- the character Spock in the television series Star Trek
Further reading: Do What You Can; Trust God With The Rest
Don't Resist Life
I Will Fear No Evil
Serenity rather than Fear
Friday, December 16, 2022
There Can Be No Progress Without Change
The world hates change, yet it is the only thing that has brought progress.
- Charles Kettering (1876-1958 - holder of 186 US Patents, including the automotive electric starter)
A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.
- Mark Twain
New ideas pass through three periods:
1) It can't be done.
2) It probably can be done, but it's not worth doing.
3) I knew it was a good idea all along!
- Arthur C. Clarke
If you want to make enemies, try to change something.
-Woodrow Wilson
Ideas, yes.
Inspiration, yes.
Creativity, yes.
Planning, yes.
Perseverance, yes.
More perseverance, yes.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Progress
A Better Plan
Flexibility
Cheer for Endings
Saturday, August 20, 2022
Remain Flexible
A man who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
- Lao Tzu
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
Do not attempt to conquer the world with force,
for force only causes resistance.
- Lao Tzu
Read the Aesop fable The Oak and the Reeds
Further reading: The Secret of Happiness
Thursday, April 21, 2022
Don't Try To Deny Reality
Some things you can change, others you need to work with.
But the worst choice is to pretend that things aren't the way they really are.
Begin with the facts, then make your choices.
Do not rail against life. [Do not complain about life.]
Make positive contributions where you can.
Practice gracious acceptance elsewhere.
And express daily gratitude for all of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
If you want reality to be different than it is,
you might as well try to teach a cat to bark.
- Byron Katie
He who avoids complaint invites happiness.
- Abu Bakr
How is it that one rails against that
which is nearly a certainty?
- Mary Anne Radmacher
To deny the facts would be illogical.
- the character Spock in the television series Star Trek
Further reading: Do What You Can; Trust God With The Rest
Don't Resist Life
I Will Fear No Evil
Serenity rather than Fear
Sunday, August 29, 2021
There is No Virtue in being Unbending
A man who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
- Lao Tzu
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
Do not attempt to conquer the world with force,
for force only causes resistance.
- Lao Tzu
Read the Aesop fable The Oak and the Reeds
Further reading: The Secret of Happiness
Friday, April 30, 2021
Begin with the Facts, Then Make Your Choices
Some things you can change, others you need to work with.
But the worst choice is to pretend that things aren't the way they really are.
Begin with the facts, then make your choices.
Do not rail against life. [Do not complain about life.]
Make positive contributions where you can.
Practice gracious acceptance elsewhere.
And express daily gratitude for all of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
If you want reality to be different than it is,
you might as well try to teach a cat to bark.
- Byron Katie
He who avoids complaint invites happiness.
- Abu Bakr
How is it that one rails against that
which is nearly a certainty?
- Mary Anne Radmacher
To deny the facts would be illogical.
- the character Spock in the television series Star Trek
Further reading: Do What You Can; Trust God With The Rest
Don't Resist Life
I Will Fear No Evil
Serenity rather than Fear
Wednesday, September 2, 2020
Become a Master of Patience
A man who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
- Lao Tzu
do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
- Saint Francis de Sales
The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
Do not attempt to conquer the world with force,
for force only causes resistance.
- Lao Tzu
Read the Aesop fable The Oak and the Reeds
Further reading: The Secret of Happiness
Friday, May 8, 2020
First, Understand the FACTS
Some things you can change, others you need to work with.
But the worst choice is to pretend that things aren't the way they really are.
Begin with the facts, then make your choices.
Do not rail against life. [Do not complain about life.]
Make positive contributions where you can.
Practice gracious acceptance elsewhere.
And express daily gratitude for all of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
If you want reality to be different than it is,
you might as well try to teach a cat to bark.
- Byron Katie
He who avoids complaint invites happiness.
- Abu Bakr
How is it that one rails against that
which is nearly a certainty?
- Mary Anne Radmacher
To deny the facts would be illogical.
- the character Spock in the television series Star Trek
Further reading: Do What You Can; Trust God With The Rest
Don't Resist Life
I Will Fear No Evil
Serenity rather than Fear
Monday, January 6, 2020
Change Brings Progress
The world hates change, yet it is the only thing that has brought progress.
- Charles Kettering (1876-1958 - holder of 186 US Patents, including the automotive electric starter)
A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.
- Mark Twain
New ideas pass through three periods:
1) It can't be done.
2) It probably can be done, but it's not worth doing.
3) I knew it was a good idea all along!
- Arthur C. Clarke
If you want to make enemies, try to change something.
-Woodrow Wilson
Ideas, yes.
Inspiration, yes.
Creativity, yes.
Planning, yes.
Perseverance, yes.
More perseverance, yes.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Progress
A Better Plan
Flexibility
Cheer for Endings
Tuesday, August 20, 2019
Work With Life, Not Against It
Resistance creates suffering.
Stress happens when your mind resists what is.
The only problem in your life
is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
- Dan Millman
If we fail to plan, we merely bob helplessly -
like a cork on the sea of life.
If we resist whatever life delivers to us,
we create untold misery for ourselves.
If we act with vision and commitment,
and then accept whatever Spirit provides,
we live a life of purpose and joy.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
By letting it go it all gets done.
The world is won by those who let it go.
But when you try and try.
The world is beyond the winning.
- Lao Tzu
Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes.
Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow.
Let reality be reality.
Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.
- Lao Tzu
What you resist, persists.
- Carl Jung
We may brave human laws, but we cannot resist natural ones.
- Jules Verne
Today's affirmation:
I practice non-resistance.
I accept the wisdom of God
in creating the world exactly as it is.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Everything Happens In Its Own Time
Acceptance Is Not Resignation
Non-Resistance
Serenity in Times of Crisis




