May the world be kind to you, and may your own thoughts be gentle upon yourself. - Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Tuesday, October 27, 2026
My Burdens are Lightened When I Laugh at Myself
What appears very scary is probably nothing to fear when thoughtfully examined in the light.
Take time to laugh at yourself. Those who feel too important to laugh at themselves rob themselves, their family, and their friends of a great source of joy.
Grin your smile; giggle your laugh; unfurl your joy;
dash the last trace of your self-consciousness;
and cavort your most uninhibited play.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The most wasted of all days is one without laughter.
- e. e. cummings
The burden of the self is lightened when I laugh at myself.
- Rabindranath Tagore
Laugh at yourself and at life.
Not in the spirit of derision or whining self-pity,
but as a remedy, a miracle drug, that will ease your pain,
cure your depression, and help you to put in perspective
that seemingly terrible defeat and worry
with laughter at your predicaments,
thus freeing your mind to think clearly
toward the solution that is certain to come.
Never take yourself too seriously.
- Og Mandino
I will not play tug o' war.
I'd rather play hug o' war.
Where everyone hugs instead of tugs,
Where everyone giggles and rolls on the rug,
Where everyone kisses, and everyone grins,
and everyone cuddles, and everyone wins.
- Shel Silverstein
Further reading: Lighten Up, Be Happy
Laughter
The Need for Humor
Not Too Serious
Sunday, July 5, 2026
Breathe, Smile, Create Happiness
Just smiling goes a long way toward making you feel better about life.
And when you feel better about life, your life is better.
- Art Linkletter
First ask yourself: What is the worst that can happen?
Then prepare to accept it.
Then proceed to improve on the worst.
- Dale Carnegie
The lure of the distant and the difficult is deceptive.
The great opportunity is where you are.
- John Burroughs
Smile and the world smiles with you.
- Anonymous
Peace begins with a smile.
- Mother Teresa
Always do the best you can,
and everything else will take care of itself.
Focus your energies on doing what you can
rather than worrying about what you can't.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
A smile that begins as an effort and a pretense quickly grows to become genuine,
and given time, a habit of happiness. In the words of Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh, "Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.
Inner Smile Exercise:
1. Breath slowly, deeply, and consciously.
2. Close your eyes and set the corners of your mouth in just the slightest smile.
3. Visualize your smile growing larger and larger, and your happiness increasing.
Today's affirmation:
Every day in every way I am getting better and better.
- Émile Coué
Further reading: Ten Little Tips to Feel Happier Right Now
No Regrets
Beyond Your Worries
Friday, June 5, 2026
Taking Oneself Lightly, Forgiveness, and Acceptance
Keys to a great life... taking oneself lightly, forgiveness, and acceptance.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
If we could all just laugh at ourselves,
in hard times or good times, it would be an incredible world.
- Jena Malone
Life's burdens are lighter when I laugh at myself.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
There is no defense against adverse fortune which is
so effectual as an habitual sense of humor.
- Thomas W. Higginson
Humor is mankind's greatest blessing.
- Mark Twain
Life is not a tragedy, it is a comedy.
To be alive means to have a sense of humor.
- Osho
Against the assault of laughter nothing can stand.
- Mark Twain
Further reading: Power of Laughter
Cherish the Whimsey
Having a Sense of Humor
As a Child Again
Tuesday, May 5, 2026
Try the Inner Smile Exercise
Although it is always better to live with conviction and enthusiasm,
some days it is better just to go through the motions than to do nothing.
Smile even when you feel grumpy.
Meditate or Pray even when you have nothing to say to God.
Cook a healthy meal even when you are tired.
Walk or exercise even when the thought doesn't excite you.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Act the way you'd like to be
and soon you'll be the way you act.
- Leonard Cohen
Repeat anything often enough
and it will start to become you.
- Tom Hopkins
A smile that begins as an effort and a pretense
quickly grows to become genuine,
and given time, a habit of happiness.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile,
but sometimes your smile
can be the source of your joy.
- Thich Nhat Hanh
Inner Smile Exercise:
1. Close your eyes.
2. Breath slowly, deeply, and consciously.
3. Set the corners of your mouth in just the slightest smile.
4. Visualize your smile growing larger and larger, and your happiness increasing.
Further reading: Ten Little Tips to Feel Happier Right Now
Choose Your Habits, Choose Your Life
Grin your smile; giggle your laugh; unfurl your joy
Practice makes perfect - sometimes
Tending the Garden of Our Lives
Overcome Being Negative
Friday, January 16, 2026
Unsmiling, Grim, and Humorless is No Way to Live

Life is too important to be taken seriously.
- Oscar Wilde
Oscar Wilde was a writer, playwright, humorist, satirist,
and astute observer of the human condition.
What does he mean by, "Life is too important to be taken seriously?"
Is it just a simple joke?
"Serious" can mean thoughtful, careful and profound,
but it also can mean unsmiling, grim, and humorless.
Life is too important to be spent being unsmiling, grim, and humorless.
Dance lightly with life today and every day.
Life is too short not to be joyful and celebrate each day.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Seriousness is a sickness; your sense of humor
makes you more human, more humble.
The sense of humor - according to me -
is one of the most essential parts of religiousness.
- Osho
Your attitude is like a box of crayons that color your world.
Constantly color your picture gray, and your picture will always be bleak.
Try adding some bright colors to the picture by including humor,
and your picture begins to lighten up.
- Allen Klein
Smile.
Today would be a wonderful day
not to take life so seriously.
Today may end up the way you prefer -
and it may not.
Happiness is not about being a winner -
it's about being gentle with life -
being gentle with yourself.
Let life be a dance,
and choose the kind of
dance you want for today -
perhaps a gentle loving dance.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Humor in the Face of Adversity
As a Child Again
Be Gentle with Yourself
Time to Smell the Flowers
Sunday, November 30, 2025
Celebrate Whimsey
Today is your day to practice whimsey,
smile broadly, sing loudly,
paint your rooms in bold colors,
watch wondrous cloud animals parade your story,
search every rabbit hole
for a magical white bunny,
have caviar for breakfast
and oatmeal for dinner,
wear a purple coat with a red hat,
and dance lightly with life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Follow Your Bliss.
- Joseph Campbell
You're only given a little spark of madness.
You mustn't lose it.
- Robin Williams
If being good isn't working - try being outrageous.
- Mary Anne Radmacher
Follow Your Bliss.
- Joseph Campbell
Who said that life had to be serious?
Imagine, Play, Sing, Turn Cartwheels, Be Unstoppable, Dance Wildly With Life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
What if we like our outrageous side best?
We "know" that the "right" thing to do is to suck it up,
put the costume and the happy face back in storage for another year,
re-dress in our frown and gray flannel suit,
and trudge back to job, chores, "responsibilities," and "duty."
Stop! Maybe TODAY is the day to put the frown and gray flannel
into that dusty storage locker, and start to LIVE.
Not just today, but EVERY DAY for the rest of your life!
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Today: Do something Outrageous - just because you want to.
Take off your shoes and dance on the beach... Play in the mud... Sing at the top of your lungs... and don't care who hears you.
Celebrate today... Celebrate ME... Celebrate Life... Celebrate Rainbows and Butterflies... Celebrate Whimsey...
Further reading: Life Lessons I Learned From My Cat
Life is too important to be taken seriously
Do Something Crazy
Today is Your Day (my complete poem)
Monday, October 27, 2025
Unfurl Your Joy
What appears very scary is probably nothing to fear when thoughtfully examined in the light.
dash the last trace of your self-consciousness;
and cavort your most uninhibited play.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The most wasted of all days is one without laughter.
- e. e. cummings
The burden of the self is lightened when I laugh at myself.
Not in the spirit of derision or whining self-pity,
but as a remedy, a miracle drug, that will ease your pain,
cure your depression, and help you to put in perspective
that seemingly terrible defeat and worry
with laughter at your predicaments,
thus freeing your mind to think clearly
toward the solution that is certain to come.
Never take yourself too seriously.
- Og Mandino
I will not play tug o' war.
I'd rather play hug o' war.
Where everyone hugs instead of tugs,
Where everyone giggles and rolls on the rug,
Where everyone kisses, and everyone grins,
and everyone cuddles, and everyone wins.
- Shel Silverstein
The Need for Humor
Not Too Serious
Saturday, July 5, 2025
Smile
Just smiling goes a long way toward making you feel better about life.
And when you feel better about life, your life is better.
- Art Linkletter
First ask yourself: What is the worst that can happen?
Then prepare to accept it.
Then proceed to improve on the worst.
- Dale Carnegie
The lure of the distant and the difficult is deceptive.
The great opportunity is where you are.
- John Burroughs
Smile and the world smiles with you.
- Anonymous
Peace begins with a smile.
- Mother Teresa
Always do the best you can,
and everything else will take care of itself.
Focus your energies on doing what you can
rather than worrying about what you can't.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
A smile that begins as an effort and a pretense quickly grows to become genuine,
and given time, a habit of happiness. In the words of Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh, "Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.
Inner Smile Exercise:
1. Breath slowly, deeply, and consciously.
2. Close your eyes and set the corners of your mouth in just the slightest smile.
3. Visualize your smile growing larger and larger, and your happiness increasing.
Today's affirmation:
Every day in every way I am getting better and better.
- Émile Coué
Further reading: Ten Little Tips to Feel Happier Right Now
No Regrets
Beyond Your Worries
Thursday, June 5, 2025
Humor is a Blessing
Keys to a great life... taking oneself lightly, forgiveness, and acceptance.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
If we could all just laugh at ourselves,
in hard times or good times, it would be an incredible world.
- Jena Malone
Life's burdens are lighter when I laugh at myself.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
There is no defense against adverse fortune which is
so effectual as an habitual sense of humor.
- Thomas W. Higginson
Humor is mankind's greatest blessing.
- Mark Twain
Life is not a tragedy, it is a comedy.
To be alive means to have a sense of humor.
- Osho
Against the assault of laughter nothing can stand.
- Mark Twain
Further reading: Power of Laughter
Cherish the Whimsey
Having a Sense of Humor
As a Child Again
Monday, May 5, 2025
Smile even when you feel grumpy
Although it is always better to live with conviction and enthusiasm,
some days it is better just to go through the motions than to do nothing.
Smile even when you feel grumpy.
Meditate or Pray even when you have nothing to say to God.
Cook a healthy meal even when you are tired.
Walk or exercise even when the thought doesn't excite you.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Act the way you'd like to be
and soon you'll be the way you act.
- Leonard Cohen
Repeat anything often enough
and it will start to become you.
- Tom Hopkins
A smile that begins as an effort and a pretense
quickly grows to become genuine,
and given time, a habit of happiness.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile,
but sometimes your smile
can be the source of your joy.
- Thich Nhat Hanh
Inner Smile Exercise:
1. Close your eyes.
2. Breath slowly, deeply, and consciously.
3. Set the corners of your mouth in just the slightest smile.
4. Visualize your smile growing larger and larger, and your happiness increasing.
Further reading: Ten Little Tips to Feel Happier Right Now
Choose Your Habits, Choose Your Life
Grin your smile; giggle your laugh; unfurl your joy
Practice makes perfect - sometimes
Tending the Garden of Our Lives
Overcome Being Negative
Thursday, January 16, 2025
Life is too important to be spent being unsmiling, grim, and humorless

Life is too important to be taken seriously.
- Oscar Wilde
Oscar Wilde was a writer, playwright, humorist, satirist,
and astute observer of the human condition.
What does he mean by, "Life is too important to be taken seriously?"
Is it just a simple joke?
"Serious" can mean thoughtful, careful and profound,
but it also can mean unsmiling, grim, and humorless.
Life is too important to be spent being unsmiling, grim, and humorless.
Dance lightly with life today and every day.
Life is too short not to be joyful and celebrate each day.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Seriousness is a sickness; your sense of humor
makes you more human, more humble.
The sense of humor - according to me -
is one of the most essential parts of religiousness.
- Osho
Your attitude is like a box of crayons that color your world.
Constantly color your picture gray, and your picture will always be bleak.
Try adding some bright colors to the picture by including humor,
and your picture begins to lighten up.
- Allen Klein
Smile.
Today would be a wonderful day
not to take life so seriously.
Today may end up the way you prefer -
and it may not.
Happiness is not about being a winner -
it's about being gentle with life -
being gentle with yourself.
Let life be a dance,
and choose the kind of
dance you want for today -
perhaps a gentle loving dance.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Humor in the Face of Adversity
As a Child Again
Be Gentle with Yourself
Time to Smell the Flowers
Saturday, November 30, 2024
Today is your day to practice whimsey
Today is your day to practice whimsey,
smile broadly, sing loudly,
paint your rooms in bold colors,
watch wondrous cloud animals parade your story,
search every rabbit hole
for a magical white bunny,
have caviar for breakfast
and oatmeal for dinner,
wear a purple coat with a red hat,
and dance lightly with life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Follow Your Bliss.
- Joseph Campbell
You're only given a little spark of madness.
You mustn't lose it.
- Robin Williams
If being good isn't working - try being outrageous.
- Mary Anne Radmacher
Follow Your Bliss.
- Joseph Campbell
Who said that life had to be serious?
Imagine, Play, Sing, Turn Cartwheels, Be Unstoppable, Dance Wildly With Life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
What if we like our outrageous side best?
We "know" that the "right" thing to do is to suck it up,
put the costume and the happy face back in storage for another year,
re-dress in our frown and gray flannel suit,
and trudge back to job, chores, "responsibilities," and "duty."
Stop! Maybe TODAY is the day to put the frown and gray flannel
into that dusty storage locker, and start to LIVE.
Not just today, but EVERY DAY for the rest of your life!
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Today: Do something Outrageous - just because you want to.
Take off your shoes and dance on the beach... Play in the mud... Sing at the top of your lungs... and don't care who hears you.
Celebrate today... Celebrate ME... Celebrate Life... Celebrate Rainbows and Butterflies... Celebrate Whimsey...
Further reading: Life Lessons I Learned From My Cat
Life is too important to be taken seriously
Do Something Crazy
Today is Your Day (my complete poem)
Sunday, October 27, 2024
Never take yourself too seriously
What appears very scary is probably nothing to fear when thoughtfully examined in the light.
dash the last trace of your self-consciousness;
and cavort your most uninhibited play.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The most wasted of all days is one without laughter.
- e. e. cummings
The burden of the self is lightened when I laugh at myself.
Not in the spirit of derision or whining self-pity,
but as a remedy, a miracle drug, that will ease your pain,
cure your depression, and help you to put in perspective
that seemingly terrible defeat and worry
with laughter at your predicaments,
thus freeing your mind to think clearly
toward the solution that is certain to come.
Never take yourself too seriously.
- Og Mandino
I will not play tug o' war.
I'd rather play hug o' war.
Where everyone hugs instead of tugs,
Where everyone giggles and rolls on the rug,
Where everyone kisses, and everyone grins,
and everyone cuddles, and everyone wins.
- Shel Silverstein
The Need for Humor
Not Too Serious
Friday, July 5, 2024
Breath slowly, deeply, and consciously
Just smiling goes a long way toward making you feel better about life.
And when you feel better about life, your life is better.
- Art Linkletter
First ask yourself: What is the worst that can happen?
Then prepare to accept it.
Then proceed to improve on the worst.
- Dale Carnegie
The lure of the distant and the difficult is deceptive.
The great opportunity is where you are.
- John Burroughs
Smile and the world smiles with you.
- Anonymous
Peace begins with a smile.
- Mother Teresa
Always do the best you can,
and everything else will take care of itself.
Focus your energies on doing what you can
rather than worrying about what you can't.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
A smile that begins as an effort and a pretense quickly grows to become genuine,
and given time, a habit of happiness. In the words of Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh, "Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.
Inner Smile Exercise:
1. Breath slowly, deeply, and consciously.
2. Close your eyes and set the corners of your mouth in just the slightest smile.
3. Visualize your smile growing larger and larger, and your happiness increasing.
Today's affirmation:
Every day in every way I am getting better and better.
- Émile Coué
Further reading: Ten Little Tips to Feel Happier Right Now
No Regrets
Beyond Your Worries
Wednesday, June 5, 2024
Take Yourself Lightly
Keys to a great life... taking oneself lightly, forgiveness, and acceptance.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
If we could all just laugh at ourselves,
in hard times or good times, it would be an incredible world.
- Jena Malone
Life's burdens are lighter when I laugh at myself.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
There is no defense against adverse fortune which is
so effectual as an habitual sense of humor.
- Thomas W. Higginson
Humor is mankind's greatest blessing.
- Mark Twain
Life is not a tragedy, it is a comedy.
To be alive means to have a sense of humor.
- Osho
Against the assault of laughter nothing can stand.
- Mark Twain
Further reading: Power of Laughter
Cherish the Whimsey
Having a Sense of Humor
As a Child Again
Sunday, May 5, 2024
Inner Smile
Although it is always better to live with conviction and enthusiasm,
some days it is better just to go through the motions than to do nothing.
Smile even when you feel grumpy.
Meditate or Pray even when you have nothing to say to God.
Cook a healthy meal even when you are tired.
Walk or exercise even when the thought doesn't excite you.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Act the way you'd like to be
and soon you'll be the way you act.
- Leonard Cohen
Repeat anything often enough
and it will start to become you.
- Tom Hopkins
A smile that begins as an effort and a pretense
quickly grows to become genuine,
and given time, a habit of happiness.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile,
but sometimes your smile
can be the source of your joy.
- Thich Nhat Hanh
Inner Smile Exercise:
1. Close your eyes.
2. Breath slowly, deeply, and consciously.
3. Set the corners of your mouth in just the slightest smile.
4. Visualize your smile growing larger and larger, and your happiness increasing.
Further reading: Ten Little Tips to Feel Happier Right Now
Choose Your Habits, Choose Your Life
Grin your smile; giggle your laugh; unfurl your joy
Practice makes perfect - sometimes
Tending the Garden of Our Lives
Overcome Being Negative
Tuesday, January 16, 2024
Your sense of humor makes you more human, more humble

Life is too important to be taken seriously.
- Oscar Wilde
Oscar Wilde was a writer, playwright, humorist, satirist,
and astute observer of the human condition.
What does he mean by, "Life is too important to be taken seriously?"
Is it just a simple joke?
"Serious" can mean thoughtful, careful and profound,
but it also can mean unsmiling, grim, and humorless.
Life is too important to be spent being unsmiling, grim, and humorless.
Dance lightly with life today and every day.
Life is too short not to be joyful and celebrate each day.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Seriousness is a sickness; your sense of humor
makes you more human, more humble.
The sense of humor - according to me -
is one of the most essential parts of religiousness.
- Osho
Your attitude is like a box of crayons that color your world.
Constantly color your picture gray, and your picture will always be bleak.
Try adding some bright colors to the picture by including humor,
and your picture begins to lighten up.
- Allen Klein
Smile.
Today would be a wonderful day
not to take life so seriously.
Today may end up the way you prefer -
and it may not.
Happiness is not about being a winner -
it's about being gentle with life -
being gentle with yourself.
Let life be a dance,
and choose the kind of
dance you want for today -
perhaps a gentle loving dance.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Humor in the Face of Adversity
As a Child Again
Be Gentle with Yourself
Time to Smell the Flowers
Thursday, November 30, 2023
Cherish Your Little Spark of Madness
Today is your day to practice whimsey,
smile broadly, sing loudly,
paint your rooms in bold colors,
watch wondrous cloud animals parade your story,
search every rabbit hole
for a magical white bunny,
have caviar for breakfast
and oatmeal for dinner,
wear a purple coat with a red hat,
and dance lightly with life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Follow Your Bliss.
- Joseph Campbell
You're only given a little spark of madness.
You mustn't lose it.
- Robin Williams
If being good isn't working - try being outrageous.
- Mary Anne Radmacher
Follow Your Bliss.
- Joseph Campbell
Who said that life had to be serious?
Imagine, Play, Sing, Turn Cartwheels, Be Unstoppable, Dance Wildly With Life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
What if we like our outrageous side best?
We "know" that the "right" thing to do is to suck it up,
put the costume and the happy face back in storage for another year,
re-dress in our frown and gray flannel suit,
and trudge back to job, chores, "responsibilities," and "duty."
Stop! Maybe TODAY is the day to put the frown and gray flannel
into that dusty storage locker, and start to LIVE.
Not just today, but EVERY DAY for the rest of your life!
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Today: Do something Outrageous - just because you want to.
Take off your shoes and dance on the beach... Play in the mud... Sing at the top of your lungs... and don't care who hears you.
Celebrate today... Celebrate ME... Celebrate Life... Celebrate Rainbows and Butterflies... Celebrate Whimsey...
Further reading: Life Lessons I Learned From My Cat
Life is too important to be taken seriously
Do Something Crazy
Today is Your Day (my complete poem)
Friday, October 27, 2023
Take Time to Laugh at Yourself
What appears very scary is probably nothing to fear when thoughtfully examined in the light.
dash the last trace of your self-consciousness;
and cavort your most uninhibited play.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The most wasted of all days is one without laughter.
- e. e. cummings
The burden of the self is lightened when I laugh at myself.
Not in the spirit of derision or whining self-pity,
but as a remedy, a miracle drug, that will ease your pain,
cure your depression, and help you to put in perspective
that seemingly terrible defeat and worry
with laughter at your predicaments,
thus freeing your mind to think clearly
toward the solution that is certain to come.
Never take yourself too seriously.
- Og Mandino
I will not play tug o' war.
I'd rather play hug o' war.
Where everyone hugs instead of tugs,
Where everyone giggles and rolls on the rug,
Where everyone kisses, and everyone grins,
and everyone cuddles, and everyone wins.
- Shel Silverstein
The Need for Humor
Not Too Serious
Thursday, July 6, 2023
There is Great Power in a Smile
Just smiling goes a long way toward making you feel better about life.
And when you feel better about life, your life is better.
- Art Linkletter
First ask yourself: What is the worst that can happen?
Then prepare to accept it.
Then proceed to improve on the worst.
- Dale Carnegie
The lure of the distant and the difficult is deceptive.
The great opportunity is where you are.
- John Burroughs
Smile and the world smiles with you.
- Anonymous
Peace begins with a smile.
- Mother Teresa
Always do the best you can,
and everything else will take care of itself.
Focus your energies on doing what you can
rather than worrying about what you can't.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
A smile that begins as an effort and a pretense quickly grows to become genuine,
and given time, a habit of happiness. In the words of Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh, "Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.
Inner Smile Exercise:
1. Breath slowly, deeply, and consciously.
2. Close your eyes and set the corners of your mouth in just the slightest smile.
3. Visualize your smile growing larger and larger, and your happiness increasing.
Today's affirmation:
Every day in every way I am getting better and better.
- Émile Coué
Further reading: Ten Little Tips to Feel Happier Right Now
No Regrets
Beyond Your Worries






