May the world be kind to you, and may your own thoughts be gentle upon yourself. - Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Tuesday, August 18, 2026
Life operates in subtleties rather than in absolutes
Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past
have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.
- George S. Patton
Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.
Relax, and life becomes simple again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The contradictions are what make human behavior
so maddening and yet so fascinating,
all at the same time.
- Joan D. Vinge
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am,
then I can change.
- Carl Rogers
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I think wholeness is God's design for us;
and that often amounts to embracing contradictions.
- Bono
Life operates in subtleties rather than in absolutes.
Life plays out in shades of gray rather than in blacks and whites.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Overflowing Cup of Tea - Zen Koan
Maybe So, Maybe Not. - Ancient Taoist Proverb
Yin-Yang
Balance in All Things
Monday, August 17, 2026
Seek Balance In All Things
To everything there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die.
- Ecclesiastes 3:1-2
We have an obligation to live in harmony with God's creation.
- Bruce Babbitt
One has to find a balance between
what people need from you
and what you need for yourself.
- Jessye Norman
A time for everything: a time to relax and a time to be busy,
a time to frolic and a time to lay up food for the winter,
a time to receive and a time to give,
a time to begin and a time to finish.
A time for work, a time for play -
balance in all things.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Change must always be balanced with some degree of consistency.
- Ron D. Burton
The ending of a job or a relationship
may appear as the darkest night,
but it is merely the Winter season -
the time of renewal and rebirth
that precedes the new planting -
the beginning of the next great cycle.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Balance vs. Moderation: Eight Ways to Balance Your Life
Live in Harmony
Creating Balance
Renew Yourself
A List of Gratitudes
Yin-Yang
Friday, December 26, 2025
Always be Open to Change
A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Note that the problem isn't with "consistency," but with "foolish consistency."
What makes a habitual action "foolish?" Ask yourself whether it serves you, or whether you serve it.
Progress is impossible without change,
and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.
- George Bernard Shaw
Prejudice is a burden that confuses the past,
threatens the future and renders the present inaccessible.
- Maya Angelou
When what you are doing is frustrating you, STOP.
Pause to consider the true importance of the task.
Reflect on whether there is a better plan for reaching your goal.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Beginning Today, Make Fresh Choices
No Need to Conform
Our Habits
Your Whole Toolkit
Monday, August 18, 2025
Life Plays in Shades of Gray
Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past
have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.
- George S. Patton
Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.
Relax, and life becomes simple again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The contradictions are what make human behavior
so maddening and yet so fascinating,
all at the same time.
- Joan D. Vinge
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am,
then I can change.
- Carl Rogers
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I think wholeness is God's design for us;
and that often amounts to embracing contradictions.
- Bono
Life plays out in shades of gray rather than in blacks and whites.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Overflowing Cup of Tea - Zen Koan
Maybe So, Maybe Not. - Ancient Taoist Proverb
Yin-Yang
Balance in All Things
Sunday, August 17, 2025
Balance in All Things
To everything there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die.
- Ecclesiastes 3:1-2
We have an obligation to live in harmony with God's creation.
- Bruce Babbitt
One has to find a balance between
what people need from you
and what you need for yourself.
- Jessye Norman
A time for everything: a time to relax and a time to be busy,
a time to frolic and a time to lay up food for the winter,
a time to receive and a time to give,
a time to begin and a time to finish.
A time for work, a time for play -
balance in all things.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Change must always be balanced with some degree of consistency.
- Ron D. Burton
The ending of a job or a relationship
may appear as the darkest night,
but it is merely the Winter season -
the time of renewal and rebirth
that precedes the new planting -
the beginning of the next great cycle.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Balance vs. Moderation: Eight Ways to Balance Your Life
Live in Harmony
Creating Balance
Renew Yourself
A List of Gratitudes
Yin-Yang
Thursday, December 26, 2024
Always Be Open to Making a Change
A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Note that the problem isn't with "consistency," but with "foolish consistency."
What makes a habitual action "foolish?" Ask yourself whether it serves you, or whether you serve it.
Progress is impossible without change,
and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.
- George Bernard Shaw
Prejudice is a burden that confuses the past,
threatens the future and renders the present inaccessible.
- Maya Angelou
When what you are doing is frustrating you, STOP.
Pause to consider the true importance of the task.
Reflect on whether there is a better plan for reaching your goal.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Beginning Today, Make Fresh Choices
No Need to Conform
Our Habits
Your Whole Toolkit
Sunday, August 18, 2024
Life plays out in shades of gray rather than in blacks and whites
Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past
have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.
- George S. Patton
Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.
Relax, and life becomes simple again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The contradictions are what make human behavior
so maddening and yet so fascinating,
all at the same time.
- Joan D. Vinge
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am,
then I can change.
- Carl Rogers
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I think wholeness is God's design for us;
and that often amounts to embracing contradictions.
- Bono
Life plays out in shades of gray rather than in blacks and whites.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Overflowing Cup of Tea - Zen Koan
Maybe So, Maybe Not. - Ancient Taoist Proverb
Yin-Yang
Balance in All Things
Saturday, August 17, 2024
Everything in Its Own Time
To everything there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die.
- Ecclesiastes 3:1-2
We have an obligation to live in harmony with God's creation.
- Bruce Babbitt
One has to find a balance between
what people need from you
and what you need for yourself.
- Jessye Norman
A time for everything: a time to relax and a time to be busy,
a time to frolic and a time to lay up food for the winter,
a time to receive and a time to give,
a time to begin and a time to finish.
A time for work, a time for play -
balance in all things.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Change must always be balanced with some degree of consistency.
- Ron D. Burton
The ending of a job or a relationship
may appear as the darkest night,
but it is merely the Winter season -
the time of renewal and rebirth
that precedes the new planting -
the beginning of the next great cycle.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Balance vs. Moderation: Eight Ways to Balance Your Life
Live in Harmony
Creating Balance
Renew Yourself
A List of Gratitudes
Yin-Yang
Tuesday, December 26, 2023
Never Stop Asking: Is Now a Time for a Change?
A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Note that the problem isn't with "consistency," but with "foolish consistency."
What makes a habitual action "foolish?" Ask yourself whether it serves you, or whether you serve it.
Progress is impossible without change,
and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.
- George Bernard Shaw
Prejudice is a burden that confuses the past,
threatens the future and renders the present inaccessible.
- Maya Angelou
When what you are doing is frustrating you, STOP.
Pause to consider the true importance of the task.
Reflect on whether there is a better plan for reaching your goal.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Beginning Today, Make Fresh Choices
No Need to Conform
Our Habits
Your Whole Toolkit
Friday, August 18, 2023
Life is Filled with Shades of Gray and Contradictions
Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past
have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.
- George S. Patton
Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.
Relax, and life becomes simple again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The contradictions are what make human behavior
so maddening and yet so fascinating,
all at the same time.
- Joan D. Vinge
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am,
then I can change.
- Carl Rogers
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I think wholeness is God's design for us;
and that often amounts to embracing contradictions.
- Bono
Further reading: Overflowing Cup of Tea - Zen Koan
Maybe So, Maybe Not. - Ancient Taoist Proverb
Yin-Yang
Balance in All Things
Thursday, August 17, 2023
Seek Balance in All Things
To everything there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die.
- Ecclesiastes 3:1-2
We have an obligation to live in harmony with God's creation.
- Bruce Babbitt
One has to find a balance between
what people need from you
and what you need for yourself.
- Jessye Norman
A time for everything: a time to relax and a time to be busy,
a time to frolic and a time to lay up food for the winter,
a time to receive and a time to give,
a time to begin and a time to finish.
A time for work, a time for play -
balance in all things.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Change must always be balanced with some degree of consistency.
- Ron D. Burton
The ending of a job or a relationship
may appear as the darkest night,
but it is merely the Winter season -
the time of renewal and rebirth
that precedes the new planting -
the beginning of the next great cycle.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Balance vs. Moderation: Eight Ways to Balance Your Life
Live in Harmony
Creating Balance
Renew Yourself
A List of Gratitudes
Yin-Yang
Wednesday, December 21, 2022
What is a Foolish Consistency?
A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Note that the problem isn't with "consistency," but with "foolish consistency."
What makes a habitual action "foolish?" Ask yourself whether it serves you, or whether you serve it.
Progress is impossible without change,
and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.
- George Bernard Shaw
Prejudice is a burden that confuses the past,
threatens the future and renders the present inaccessible.
- Maya Angelou
When what you are doing is frustrating you, STOP.
Pause to consider the true importance of the task.
Reflect on whether there is a better plan for reaching your goal.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Beginning Today, Make Fresh Choices
No Need to Conform
Our Habits
Your Whole Toolkit
Thursday, August 4, 2022
Life is Not Black and White, but Shades of Gray and Contradictions
Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past
have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.
- George S. Patton
Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.
Relax, and life becomes simple again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The contradictions are what make human behavior
so maddening and yet so fascinating,
all at the same time.
- Joan D. Vinge
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am,
then I can change.
- Carl Rogers
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I think wholeness is God's design for us;
and that often amounts to embracing contradictions.
- Bono
Further reading: Overflowing Cup of Tea - Zen Koan
Maybe So, Maybe Not. - Ancient Taoist Proverb
Yin-Yang
Balance in All Things
Wednesday, August 3, 2022
Find Your Balance
To everything there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die.
- Ecclesiastes 3:1-2
We have an obligation to live in harmony with God's creation.
- Bruce Babbitt
One has to find a balance between
what people need from you
and what you need for yourself.
- Jessye Norman
A time for everything: a time to relax and a time to be busy,
a time to frolic and a time to lay up food for the winter,
a time to receive and a time to give,
a time to begin and a time to finish.
A time for work, a time for play -
balance in all things.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Change must always be balanced with some degree of consistency.
- Ron D. Burton
The ending of a job or a relationship
may appear as the darkest night,
but it is merely the Winter season -
the time of renewal and rebirth
that precedes the new planting -
the beginning of the next great cycle.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Balance vs. Moderation: Eight Ways to Balance Your Life
Live in Harmony
Creating Balance
Renew Yourself
A List of Gratitudes
Yin-Yang
Friday, August 13, 2021
Life is Full of Contradictions
Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past
have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.
- George S. Patton
Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.
Relax, and life becomes simple again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The contradictions are what make human behavior
so maddening and yet so fascinating,
all at the same time.
- Joan D. Vinge
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am,
then I can change.
- Carl Rogers
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I think wholeness is God's design for us;
and that often amounts to embracing contradictions.
- Bono
Further reading: Overflowing Cup of Tea - Zen Koan
Maybe So, Maybe Not. - Ancient Taoist Proverb
Yin-Yang
Balance in All Things
Thursday, August 12, 2021
Balance - A Time for Everything
To everything there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die.
- Ecclesiastes 3:1-2
We have an obligation to live in harmony with God's creation.
- Bruce Babbitt
One has to find a balance between
what people need from you
and what you need for yourself.
- Jessye Norman
A time for everything: a time to relax and a time to be busy,
a time to frolic and a time to lay up food for the winter,
a time to receive and a time to give,
a time to begin and a time to finish.
A time for work, a time for play -
balance in all things.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Change must always be balanced with some degree of consistency.
- Ron D. Burton
The ending of a job or a relationship
may appear as the darkest night,
but it is merely the Winter season -
the time of renewal and rebirth
that precedes the new planting -
the beginning of the next great cycle.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Balance vs. Moderation: Eight Ways to Balance Your Life
Live in Harmony
Creating Balance
Renew Yourself
A List of Gratitudes
Yin-Yang
Monday, August 17, 2020
It's OK that Life is Not Simple
Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past
have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.
- George S. Patton
Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.
Relax, and life becomes simple again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The contradictions are what make human behavior
so maddening and yet so fascinating,
all at the same time.
- Joan D. Vinge
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am,
then I can change.
- Carl Rogers
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I think wholeness is God's design for us;
and that often amounts to embracing contradictions.
- Bono
Further reading: Overflowing Cup of Tea - Zen Koan
Maybe So, Maybe Not. - Ancient Taoist Proverb
Yin-Yang
Balance in All Things
Sunday, August 16, 2020
Every Purpose Under Heaven
To everything there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die.
- Ecclesiastes 3:1-2
We have an obligation to live in harmony with God's creation.
- Bruce Babbitt
One has to find a balance between
what people need from you
and what you need for yourself.
- Jessye Norman
A time for everything: a time to relax and a time to be busy,
a time to frolic and a time to lay up food for the winter,
a time to receive and a time to give,
a time to begin and a time to finish.
A time for work, a time for play -
balance in all things.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Change must always be balanced with some degree of consistency.
- Ron D. Burton
The ending of a job or a relationship
may appear as the darkest night,
but it is merely the Winter season -
the time of renewal and rebirth
that precedes the new planting -
the beginning of the next great cycle.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Balance vs. Moderation: Eight Ways to Balance Your Life
Live in Harmony
Creating Balance
Renew Yourself
A List of Gratitudes
Yin-Yang
Thursday, April 25, 2019
Find Harmony Within Constant Change
To everything there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die.
- Ecclesiastes 3:1-2
Change must always be balanced with some degree of consistency.
- Ron D. Burton
We have an obligation to live in harmony with God's creation.
- Bruce Babbitt
A time for everything: a time to relax and a time to be busy,
a time to frolic and a time to lay up food for the winter,
a time to receive and a time to give,
a time to begin and a time to finish.
A time for work, a time for play -
balance in all things.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
One has to find a balance between
what people need from you
and what you need for yourself.
- Jessye Norman
The ending of a job or a relationship
may appear as the darkest night,
but it is merely the Winter season -
the time of renewal and rebirth
that precedes the new planting -
the beginning of the next great cycle.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Living in Harmony
Balance vs. Moderation: Eight Ways to Balance Your Life
Creating Balance
A List of Gratitudes
Renew Yourself
Yin-Yang
Monday, October 22, 2018
Try a Different Approach
Persistence only takes you so far.
Then you need to try a different approach.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Life repeats itself mindlessly.
Unless you become mindful, it will go on repeating like a wheel.
- Osho
I am persuaded that the world has been tricked into adopting
some false and most pernicious notions about consistency -
and to such a degree that the average man has
turned the rights and wrongs of things entirely around
and is proud to be "consistent," unchanging, immovable, fossilized,
where it should be his humiliation.
- Mark Twain
If you do what you've always done,
you'll get what you've always gotten.
- Anthony Robbins
Further reading: Flexibility is Key to Progress
Our Habits
A Better Plan
Cheer for Endings
Your Whole Toolkit



